1.
Work it
You know what I mean: I’m talking about you and your fear of skin. Show a
little. I don’t mean Julia Roberts in
Erin Brockovich, but maybe something from her
Mystic Pizza days.
2.
Work out
Did I mention that Tip #1 is contingent upon the success of Tip #2? If you
don’t work out, you can’t work it. Get yourself on the elliptical a few
times a week, and not only will you look better in your new, revealing
wardrobe, but you’ll feel better and exude confidence.
3.
Shut up
Enough with the long stories already. First meetings call for shallow
conversation, not your memoirs.
4.
Be mysterious
This is the 21st century version of playing hard to get. Girls in the 20th
century took this too far — never acting interested, never calling back ...
You know who you are. These days, hold back some information. Don’t divulge
the details of your brief stint as Tori Spelling’s personal assistant; just
allude to it. He’ll be begging for more.
5.
No scowling
My gorgeous friend Miranda is a scowler. Scowls at everyone in the place.
When she asks, “Why can’t I get a guy?” our friends tell her she intimidates
men. She looks like a bitch. No one will tell her, so I’m telling you.
6.
Show your smarts
Acting ditzy is like so 1996. You watch CNN. Dazzle him with your knowledge
of the Nasdaq, not Nickelodeon.
7.
Be seen
You’ve got a VCR, so you can tape "Buffy." Just get out there and let the
world know you’re available ... without looking available. Make him say,
“Who’s that girl I keep seeing around? She certainly looks mysterious and
smart.”
8.
Network
You may think your best friend’s boyfriend is a waste of time, but don’t
count him out. No, I don’t mean steal him — talk to him. Talk to all guys
even if they’re taken. They have friends, co-workers and second cousins.
9.
Graduate from seventh grade
Hey, you’re an adult. Don’t giggle with your friends and send one of them
over to tell the guy you think he’s fine. I don’t care how many tequila
shots you’ve had. You wouldn’t write his name on your book covers, would
you?
10.
If all else fails, girl ... make the move
Why should we always leave it up to them? If you’ve followed the first nine
tips, then you just may have the confidence to approach the guy yourself.
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