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Tips For Men - 10 Ways to Turn Her Head
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Anyone can make a fool of himself and get noticed -- this is no tough task -- but how many can actually stand out among envious men and win the heart of that special lady? Exactly. Here are 10 ways to capture her attention:

10. Be yourself
I cannot stress this enough. Women are intolerant of phonies. When they see a man who is genuine and sincere, they will assume that he is going to treat them well.

9. Be positive
It is very easy to be negative and pessimistic, but remember to see your glass as half full -- not half empty. In fact, do not even visualize a glass. Learn to look on the bright side and draw her in with your positive energy.

8. Behave
It is very easy act like a spoiled brat, but if you want the cream of the crop, act your age or you will lose your chance at love. Or even a first date.

7. Do not chase her
Many men have a primordial instinct to aggressively chase women. This dilutes the impact of the chase. Now imagine being the one man who refuses to participate in the hunt. What do you think will happen to her attraction level? We guarantee your stock will soar in her eyes.

6. Do not drool
Are you a hungry wolf? Well, even if you are, do not drool at women (or whistle for that matter). Trust me, you will stand out if you gawk, but for the wrong reasons. If you break these cardinal rules, then you might as well store your mojo in a jar because you won't be using it anytime soon.

5. Be Different

Bland means boring, and women rarely like boring. When I say "be different," don't get the wrong idea and dye your hair fuchsia. Just try not to drown in the crowd by looking like everyone else. Make sure that at all times, however, you remain true to yourself. It makes no sense to act differently and try too hard; you have to think about what makes you different and let your individuality shine.

4.  Be Polite

Although women tend to fall for jerks, no woman with confidence and high self-esteem wants a man who talks trash, and has no regard for others. You don't need to be Mr. Chivalrous all the time, but showing her that you know what it takes to be a gentleman is important.

3.  Know Her

No two women are alike, so instead of assuming what they are and trying to get their attention, you should understand them and work backwards to discover exactly what will get their attention.

2.  Approach Her

Be courageous and bold, talk to them, ask questions, and show them that you are confident. Women generally love men that set their sights on something and go for it. Just do it.

1.  Maker Her Laugh

You like to laugh? So do I, and chances are that the woman you want does too. The single best way to a woman's heart is not via your wallet but rather your sense of humor. Come on, what's your best line? And I'm not referring to the "pickup" variety...